Some guy situations

So two guy situations that I wanted to share...
1. Pilot dude he is a really sweet cute guy he lives in CA and happens to be a pilot. Yes you read that correctly that means a uniform But alas a few weeks ago I went online directly after shabbos and he was there. But he's in CA that's 3 hours behind us why is he online? So I asked him he's like well I don't really always do all of shabbos. Ok this one's over. Sigh.
2. A new guy in the heights who's actually my age! Woo hoo! I had gone into the local supermarket saw a friend of mine who is engaged and convinced him that he will be shlepping my groceries home. While I was there I ran into the new dude. We're shmoozing and joking and this random girl who I had run into a couple of times in the store hadn't met her joined the conversation. I introduced myself and then introduced the guy. Then I turned into a wing-man (wing woman?) I got the last of my groceries and went home but the guy wanted to borrow some stuff from me. The next thing I know he's over hanging out for about a good hour and a half. As it turns out he ended up walking the other girl home helped her with her groceries she fed him dinner invited him for friday night dinner. How did I go from a possibility to a wing man. Only me. Sigh. I'll continue to keep you posted.